new year, new me!

ive often wondered, how and why new years resolutions were made..back then mine was always to lose weight as if i dont wish that every single day of my life. but my real,question is are we all really capable in changing ourselves? i am now 31 years old and i dont think i have changed a lot. im still hard headed., i still have the same temper as i have when i was 20 something...this new year ive thought about having one resolution though, that is to be more selfless and be happy for others...which in my experience is very hard...ive had my disappointments and heartaches that made me a strong and firm kinda person. that is why being empathetic is very hard for me... i am always the kind of person who wouldnt be sorry for others failures because i know that one way or the other they will be able to stand again if they will only try ('cause thats me! ) but now i realized that not all people would really have the same approach as i have when it comes to failures and heartaches...what i would like to try now is to inspire people on how to stand again..heads up..and how to use your failures as a lesson and as a valuable thing that would help you be a better person.. well i am crossing my fingers and i know with God's guidance i would be able to become a bit selfless......happy new year to everyone!!!